~Love~
Saturday, November 22, 2014
So it's gonna be forever
Or it's gonna go down in flames?
You can tell me when it's over
If the high was worth the pain.
Blank Space- Taylor Swift
Hey-low~~ =D
So another random post!
Since I got so inspired after reading someone's blog ;D
I am not sure if I blogged anything about "love" before but I think I did not =D
My blog is so messy hahaha XD
Anyway. Love. I think it's the most powerful emotion and also the most positive and empowering feeling ever. [cheh. includes dramatic background musics =P]
When people ask me to define what is love, the most common reaction I give to them is a smile. Because simply, there's no answer to it =)
Hrm to be honest, in my own humble opinion, I think there's no right definition for love.
It's just a very comforting, satisfying feeling. A happy feeling. A willing feeling.
It just comes naturally. Without forcing yourself to give in =)
Well, I am talking about general love here.
What inspired me in blogging this is because, I think people see love wrongly.
They see as something they need to hold onto.
Like, they expect something in return. They take it for granted. It's like every thing they do, there's a motive.
And I guess, they just need to "love" someone to fill the empty spaces in their hearts. To fill the loneliness.
Which is kinda, wrong I guess.
Well, it can be viewed as something right but to a certain extend.
Because it can turn out to be desperation instead of sincerity.
The whole scenario becomes scary and pushy because you are forcing yourself to do something that does not come naturally.
And it's kinda unfair to the other party to receive your "love" in a forceful way too.
So yea. =)
Love comes naturally. It's unconditional. And it comes in many forms.
You can love a person, you can love an object, you can love a hobby, you can love an animal, you can love a place.
Let's take an example =)
When you ask me, why do I love my parents.
To be honest, I don't have specific reasons to tell you.
The feeling just exists naturally. I love them unconditionally. And also, I'd do anything for them. I'd sacrifice for them.
And that's love. Because, I expect nothing in return. I'd do anything just to make sure they are happy. I'd do anything because I care.
I'd do anything to protect them . To cherish them . I appreciate them. And I am always there for them. Always supporting them. Giving them enough attention.
And no matter what mistakes they've done, I always find ways to forgive them =) And no grudges hold against them.
And I put my trust on them a lot..
And there's no limit in doing all these. I always try to be a better person for them.
In fact, I always feel that, I've never done enough =)
And again, this is love. Because there's no condition. There's no reason. It happens naturally. It goes with the flow. It's boundless and limitless =D
You find beauty in loving something =)
And then again, to give love to others, it comes down to you first.
Before loving others, I think the most important thing is to love yourself first.
I mean, if you do not appreciate yourself, if you do not love yourself for who you are, I think it's quite difficult for you to be giving out your love to others =)
Because you will restrict yourself. You do not see the beauty of loving something. And what more when you can't love yourself =)
So, love yourself before loving others =D That's most important. Appreciate who you are. And simply, be yourself. Because you are worth it.
Next, also do not fall in love when you're desperate to be in love. Or to love. or to be loved.
Because, most of the time, people who do this, are just desperate for constant attention, companion and affection. And it kinda lost its meaning and purity in it =)
Trust me, you'll end up regretting if you are desperate. Because, you're just forcing yourself to find someone as soon as possible.
Let it go naturally. Again, my opinions may be wrong =)
Fall in love when you're ready =) Don't push yourself into doing something that does not feel so right.
Fall in love with a clear mind. And also, get into relationship when you're serious about it. and make sure you are ready for it. It's a whole level of commitment =P
Don't just hook up and break up.. It's not a game =)
If things go wrong, fix it. Don't just throw it away.
Hrm so yea. I'd be lying if I say I did not fall in love before.
Judging from my past posts. Yes I did haha xD
I fell hard. And to be honest, After that, I find it hard to love again.
I find it hard to let people love me or to love others easily.
Why? because I kinda lost trust. I am not emo. But simply because I learnt to never love so easily. Since I am scared of getting hurt.
No I am not melancholic =P I am doing this so that I don't easily get hurt.
And that shall apply to most of us too =)
Loving too much or quickly can sometimes turn real bad. So yea, it depends on situation =)
So... Love. Is not as simple as saying "I Love You". It's the thoughts that count =) Action speaks louder than words =D
The care, attention, sacrifice are what matter =)
To love someone, you are able to see through their flaws and appreciate them who they are =) You are you when you are with them too. Because, you do not need to impress them either ;D
And also, you do not judge them for their past. You make peace. You forgive every mistake. And you are willing to compromise ..
Love is pure. It's something we should cherish. And not just throw away easily. or move away from it easily =D
It takes time to build.
It's unconditional. There are no boundaries. No limits =)
Cheers!!
and have a great weekend ahead! =D
"I've learnt to love again"
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