And I just wanna tell you I am"
Thinking out loud- Ed Sheeran
Hellow! =D
So here I am. blogging again ;D
So it's gonna be a random post.
And I am just gonna type out whatever thoughts that come out randomly ;D
Today, I am blogging about forgiveness =)
You see. We, humans, make mistakes all the time..
And I guess, it takes one's courage to say "sorry" sincerely.
Well, I personally like this scene =) The harder it is to say "sorry", the more meaningful it is.
Why? Because it simply shows how much you really care and how much you reflect yourself after a wrong doing.
It shows your sincerity and you know you are wrong.
That's what I personally think. Because, somehow, nowadays, from what I've been observing [chehh as if I am a pro =P] , people tend to say "sorry" so easily that it has lost its real message.
I am not saying that it's wrong to say sorry immediately after you've done something wrong.
But, it depends on the situation =) How light it is or how serious it is.
Imagine if you've done something real bad, and you say sorry after a while. I guess, it will just arouse anger in the other party even more. Give it time. Let both parties cool off first. Reflect, and then say sorry meaningfully. Let both parties engage in a calmer state of mind first.
And of course, imagine if you accidentally push someone when you're on the way to somewhere, just immediately say sorry =P because if you don't, yea the person would be pretty mad.
Again, it depends on the situation. And it's up to you to judge =)
Besides that, I would also like to point out that, forgive and forget quickly.
Life's too short to hold onto grudges. Or to hold onto regrets.
Make more friends than enemies.
You don't want to live a life surrounded by people you hate or people who hate you right?
Because it will just give you negative energy.
Live a peaceful life.
People make mistakes. I make mistakes. I make TONNES of mistakes. Sometimes I wish I can undo them and to not admit that I was the one who made them.
But, mistakes are what make us who we are today. Life's a learning journey.
We mature each day. The more we learn, the wiser we are.
We learn from mistakes. And we tell ourselves not to repeat the same mistakes again or we will face the consequences and pay for the price.
And nobody's gonna blame you for your mistakes [unless of course, if you keep doing the same mistakes then you are just asking for troubles lol]. It's a natural thing if we make mistakes.
For those who judge you based on your past and mistakes or discriminate you or isolate you, ignore them.
As if they are so perfect. They do not worth a single second of your life. They are nobody but a bunch of low-mentality people.
Who are they to judge you? Nobody has the rights to judge you. Only God has the rights.
Nobody's perfect. We are all born imperfect. And it's the imperfections that make us perfect for who we are. =D
Again, forgive easily, and forget quickly. Everyone deserves second chances.
We don't have all the time in the world. =)
Never hold onto grudges.
It brings nothing but depression, and probably health problems.
Cherish the people around you. Live the present. Screw the past ;D
Who cares about the past? There's no such thing as a perfect life.
There's bound to be ups and downs in life. We have dark past. But that does not mean you don't deserve a brighter present or future right?=D
Also, channel all those negative energy to positive energy =)
Use that energy in doing something useful.
Like how you can be a better person. or how you want to put the energy on someone.
I guess that's all for now.
Wanna drown myself in my novels weee! XD
Thanks for reading ;D
Bye!!
" I miss you so much "
